No Foolaking

During my childhood days, social studies text described family as follows:

1. Father, the guardian who takes care of your house and earns money for family
   
2. Mother, the person who cooks and does household works (mainly cooking)
   
3. Son helps father to do shopping and other works
   
4. Daughter assists mom in cooking and gardening

But after a decade, life has changed. I don’t think the social studies would recite the same thing for new generation kids. They find both their parents working together at kitchen and going out to office. Today mother and father earn for the family. Even if there are a few families that hold patriarchal system of women at kitchen and men at verandah, many have changed. The social concept of equality is emerging though at a snail’s pace.

There is still a belief that women can be fooled easily. Common sense and tactics to deal with things doesn’t belong to men only. The image of woman depicted in televisions is still that of a ‘good for nothing’ creature

A recent ad by a famous desi mobile network provider shook me badly. In that advertisement, a guy proposes a girl from a cafeteria. She says, “I’m ok. But you must change your status in Facebook as IN A RELATIONSHIP”. And the guy is confused. Now the girl says you can’t fool females anymore as we have that particular network provider to help us with IDEAs.

That commercial became a hit in channels. But if you analyze that ad, you’d find a few points that are extremely annoying:

• Girls can be easily fooled
  
• Females can survive only with assistance
  
• Changing Facebook status is the most important thing in life
  
• A relationship status is a public thing and not confined between two people

Ads can be creative and funny. But it must have logic. The meanings in between words and scenes convey a lot. Commercials like this would result in decrease of woman’s confidence. We need self-assured woman folks for national empowerment. Let us realize the real sense behind these ads and not think that we need support to react. You are strong enough to judge what is right and wrong. Be yourself!